So the title of this blog is endometrial hyperplasia without atypia. This is rather large word but this is what I have been diagnosed with and according my OB/GYN is most likely from taking Tamoxifen for that year and a half. It has almost been a year since I stopped taking it. On September 28th after I got home from the grocery store I was unloading the groceries and all of a sudden felt something coming out of me and I initially thought I had leaked urine even though I didn't feel that pressure. I went to the bathroom and I had blood all over my underwear, pants and legs. I had to strip down and get in the shower to clean up and get my clothes washed. I was really shocked and at first thought it was my period returning with a vengeance since I had not had once since February.
The blood was really red and the consistency of a bloody nose which is very different from my normal menstrual cycles but I wasn't alarmed yet because I thought maybe my body was just readjusting. I also had no cramping or discomfort what so ever which is also very unusual for me. I almost thought that I was pretty lucky to get my period back without cramping. We ended up going camping Friday night for the weekend because we needed to pull our trailer off of the mountain before it snows and we were pushing it with the 1st of October on that Sunday. We had a great time camping but Saturday night something very strange happened that really scared me. We all headed to bed around 10:30PM so I went to the bathroom and put a new tampon in like I usually do right before bed and it wasn't very soaked just the normal menstrual flow. A little after midnight I woke up really wet and seriously thought maybe I was sleeping so deep that I peed the bed. I went into the bathroom and as soon as I sat down on the toilet my super flow tampon fell out of me along with very large blood clots. The tampon was all of the way soaked through in about an hour and a half. I cleaned myself up and changed my clothes and tried to go back to sleep. I couldn't sleep because my initial thought was that I was hemorrhaging and we were up on the mountain far away from a hospital. I didn't wake Kaci or Jeff and only slept off and on the whole night. I didn't have any more heavy bleeding for the rest of the night and come morning it was back to a normal flow. We woke up and had breakfast and then starting packing everything up to bring our trailer home. Everything went fine and we got home safe and unpacked. I went about everything like normal until Monday night and I had another gush of blood which made a huge mess that I had to clean up again even though I had my super flow tampon in. I decided that I better wear a pad as well as a tampon just in case it happened again and sure enough for the next four days I was bleeding like crazy and soaking through my tampons onto the pads. I decided on Wednesday to call and make an appointment with my doctor for Friday. I wanted to give it a few more days because my normal periods only last 5-6 days and I figured by Friday I would be 8 days into it.
Friday me and Jeff headed to my OB/GYN (I had him come and wait in the office for support). Everything inside of me after this heavy bleeding that started on Monday was telling me this was not a period. I still did not have any cramping or discomfort but I was bleeding really bad and passing very large blood clots. She did an exam and an endometrial biopsy that hurt like hell!!!! I cannot believe they don't offer any type of numbing drugs with this. I was crying by the time she was done. She wanted to have a biopsy done to see if something else is going on. She also said she removed a lot of blood clots from my cervix so hopefully the bleeding would slow down for a few days. They also drew blood from my arm to send to the lab to see if that would show something. After this appointment they made me another appointment for later in the day for a pelvic ultrasound of my uterus, cervix and ovaries. Of course this appointment was at the clinic I try and stay away from because of the emotional anxiety it gives me. It is where I had the mammogram, ultra sound and biopsy that changed my life forever. It is also where my breast surgeons office is. I had to go to the exact radiology department for this ultrasound but I had Jeff with me so I really didn't get as nervous as I thought I would. They finished up the pelvic ultrasound which was a piece of cake compared to what I went through with the endometrial biopsy just hours before. We went about our weekend like normal and I only had minimal pain. I continued to wear a pad along with my tampons just in case and the bleeding did slow down quite a lot so like the doctor was hoping it would. I even starting thinking that it was going to stop soon but it resumed back to a moderate and heavy flow come Monday.
On Tuesday the 10th I called into the office to see if they had any results and they did have the labs back on the blood work and the results from the ultrasound. The blood work all came back great and showed that my ovaries were functioning normal, the only test that showed something was off was the TSH (thyroid stimulating hormone). We still aren't sure what this is all about they want to retest it in about 6 weeks. The ultrasound showed the normal ovarian cysts on one of my ovaries and was probably because I was ovulating. There was another cyst in my uterus but it was very small and not likely to cause this heavy bleeding. When I was talking to my doctor she referred me to an OB/GYN since she is only a nurse midwife she thought it would be best to have a consult for an uterine ablation surgery. She felt that the ablation surgery would at least control or stop my uterine bleeding all together. They were able to set that appointment up for Thursday, October 12th.
I had Jeff go with me to this appointment as well and we were hoping that the results from the endometrial biopsy would be back and they were. This doctor I met with was new and fresh out of school but we really, really liked her. She explained that the biopsy showed endometrial hyperplasia without atypia which is a side effect of Tamoxifen. It needs to be taken care of because it can turn into uterine cancer. This is also what she feels is causing my uterine bleeding and that the bleeding I am having is not a period but attributed to this. As of today (October 13th) I have been bleeding for 15 days with no signs of it stopping any time soon and all without cramps or discomfort. The only discomfort I feel is from wearing tampons for so many days in a row but I really don't have a choice. It will slow at one time during the day and then all of a sudden change and be really heavy for another part of the day. It is still very bright red with a lot of clots. Dr. R said she could get me in on Tuesday the 17th for the Novasure Ablation surgery. She wants to do it at the hospital while I am under anesthesia because she also needs to do a D & C which she will do first before the ablation. She feels the biopsy I had only shows the one area they tested and that other things could be going on as well in the other parts of the uterus and wants to rule out cancer especially since I am at a greater risk because of my breast cancer. This way she will scrape the entire uterine lining so that she can send it to pathology for testing and do the ablation following the D&C procedure while I am asleep. She is 99% sure that my bleeding with stop forever. She said it is best to do the ablation surgery while the person is under because it can be very painful and uncomfortable. I am actually very relieved that she will be doing it while I am under. I sure hope it goes well and that it only shows this hyperplasia. The normal treatment for hyperplasia is progesterone to help thin out the lining but with me being a breast cancer survivor whose cancer was almost 100% estrogen and progesterone positive I cannot have the extra hormones. I hope this works and that I won't need a hysterectomy but I am keeping that in the back of my mind just in case.
I guess it doesn't surprise me that Tamoxifen has caused this, after all I always seem to get the weird and less common side effects. This also solidifies my decision I made in November 2016 to stop taking the Tamoxifen. Sure it might help to keep the breast cancer from returning all the while hindering my quality of life and then causing my uterine lining to thicken and then developing endometrial hyperplasia. For now I am remaining positive and hoping this D&C and ablation surgery goes well on Tuesday and I can get back to normal and feeling good and be back to work the next day. By the way I still don't have any hot flashes since they stopped in June. Once in a while I feel a little warm flush but it is nothing compared to how the hot flashes made me feel.
Life sure is crazy and I really live in the moment most of the time. I am always planning out our next adventures for the next day, weekend, year etc. so that I have something really fun to look forward to all the while enjoying the moments I am in now. I feel very blessed and thankful for all that I have been given and where I am at, at this moment in my life. My thoughts and prayers are constantly given to those around me who are currently battling stage IV breast cancer, getting a new cancer diagnosis, or another type of ailment as well as all the troubles/ disasters going on around the world.
Friday, October 13, 2017
Sunday, September 10, 2017
Life goes on (January-September 2017)
Warning: This is a very long blogpost that I typed out in early September but just finished adding all of the photos today (October 13th) so that I could publish it
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Wow, I cannot believe my last post was in January. Life has continued to move on and in a good way. Cancer is seriously the furthest thing from my mind although I do have occasional days where it surfaces and it is staring me in the face.
Since January I have been super busy enjoying my life. We started finishing our basement in February almost 2 years later than planned but it is done now and we love it. We have finished it into a full mother-in-law apartment so that if we ever get in a bind or something happens to one of us we can always rent it out. It was finished completely the beginning of May. We haven't really had time to enjoy it because we immediately started camping for the summer.
In March Jeff turned the big 40 and Kaci turned 12.
We had our traditional Easter party that I came up a few years ago. We usually do it the Saturday before Easter and we have a yummy dinner and then an Easter Egg hunt for everybody in the dark outside in the back yard.
Jeff finally graduated with his bachelors degree at the end of April. He should have been done almost 2 years ago but was delayed with me getting sick. We are super excited to finally have that stress gone from our lives. Kaci and I are enjoying having him home more.
In May Kaci finished out her 6th grade year. This year she was part of the choir and the student council which she loved. It was a great finish to her elementary years. Following her finishing school we took a last minute Memorial Day trip to Yellowstone. What an awesome time to visit Yellowstone, we saw so many animals including a mama grizzly bear and her two cubs. Next year we are going to plan ahead and get our reservations before the week we go.
In June we took out trailer up to the mountains where it stays all summer and were able to get in 2 camping trips prior to us leaving on an Alaskan cruise at the end the of the month. We went to Alaska to celebrate Jeff's graduation. We took Kaci and also went with Jeff's parents. We absolutely loved Alaska and can't wait to go back. We have it on our radar for another trip in the summer of 2019.
Something crazy happened to me after the first night of this cruise MY HOT FLASHES STOPPED. I am not sure why they stopped but I still haven't had a period since the last one if February. It was perfect timing because I was so worried being bundled up because Alaska is cold and then having to rip all of my layers off during a hot flash. It couldn't have stopped at a better time and made this trip even better. Until you have hot flashes all of the time you really don't realize how much they diminish your quality of life. This trip was so memorable and so good to be able to celebrate Jeff's graduation.
In July we camped almost every weekend, we enjoy decorating our RZR and then we go out driving with our neighbors for a night parade and sometimes we pass out candy for any bystanders.
My 43rd birthday was on July 30th and I decided I wanted to do something different and fun. So my niece, mom and the 3 of us headed up to Park City for the night. We went to the Park City Mountain resort to ride the alpine slides and the next day we went to the Utah Olympic Park where I ziplined o(on my actual birthday) down the Olympic ski jump hills. What an experience. I am not a daring person at all but I tried it and loved it.
August came fast and before we knew it school was getting ready to start. I have been dreading August all along because of Kaci starting Junior High. We did have a good August though. We booked a last minute condo for the night over Raspberry Days in Bear Lake and were able to go up on a Thursday night to enjoy the parade and the next morning we were able to drive around the lake, watch a play and have lunch before going home and then we headed up to the mountains for the weekend. It was super crazy getting home at 6:30PM and then packing some clothes and our cooler to head up to the mountains at 7:00PM. I love being busy and taking in everything every chance I get. I feel like life is so short and I want to do anything and everything I possibly can. The day before school started on August 21st we headed up to Riverton, WY to watch the total solar eclipse. Wow! I don't even know how to describe how cool it was experiencing something like that. Again this was my crazy idea and I was able to once again score a last minute hotel reservation in Rock Springs, WY which put us within 2 hours of Riverton. It was worth getting up that far so that the next morning we were close. Our original plan was to drive up to Idaho Falls the morning of and then drive home. I am so glad we didn't go that route because traffic was horrendous. I am so glad we did it as it was probably a once in a lifetime experience. After the sun started peeking back out we hit the road and didn't stop once. We brought our lunch with us and ate in the car. We were able to drive home in 4-1/2 hours with no traffic jams. We were at the very front of the traffic so we cruised right home and arrived at 4:30PM, just enough time to get showered and ready for Kaci's back to school night at the junior high. We were able to attend her orientation and find all of her classes. We were worried about missing it and I left it up to her if she wanted to go to the eclipse or not and she chose to take that chance. We were so happy we were able to do it all. We all slept really good that night even though it was the night before school started. She was up when her alarm went off and out the door by 6:50am to catch the bus. I worried all day about her and was hoping she would come home saying she loved junior high but also prepared for the worst in case she didn't like it. Well, she came home and said she loved it! She still loves it now and it has been about 2 weeks since it started.
Now it is September and for Labor Day weekend we took a girls trip up to Park City. It was my mom, Jeff's mom, Kaci and I. Jeff decided to finish out his last weekend of the deer archery hunt in the mountains. We love Park City during Labor Day. They have quite a few events up that way during this holiday weekend that we like to attend. One is Swiss Days which is the largest craft fair I have ever been to. I cannot even begin to guess at how many booths there were. The other is the Soldier Hollow Classic (sheepdog competitions). Of course this weekend we saw record high temperatures and it was almost too hot to enjoy all of these activities like we would like to. Regardless we still had fun and even went to the outlet stores to stock up on some more school clothes.
Jeff and I flew up to Spokane, WA the Thursday after Labor Day and then we shuttled over to Kellogg, ID to pick up our new car. We decided since our Honda is now 10 years old with 193,000 miles that is probably time to get a new car. Our last Honda was 10 years old with over 200,000 miles on it when we sold it. Both Honda's have been great cars and have never had any issues other than the regular maintenance. It was bitter sweet selling our car last week because of all of the memories. Jeff and I had a great 3 nights away, it was like a mini vacation for us and one that we have never done since we had Kaci over 12 years ago. The night we picked up our Jeep they gave us a hotel room in Kellogg so we stayed there. The next morning we got up early and headed out. I had reserved a very nice hotel in McCall Idaho, it is called the Shore Lodge. It was amazing and we had the best food while we were in town and really was the 2nd highlight of our trip since obviously picking up our Jeep was the first. The next day we headed out later in the afternoon since we wanted to soak up McCall for as long as we could and headed to Twin Falls. We stayed the night there and then headed for home on Sunday morning. Kaci was so excited to see us and we were excited to see her. This trip was very much needed and it shows us that we need to do these adult vacations more often. McCall Idaho is on our list of vacations in the future. From our house it is a 7 hour drive so about the same distance as Las Vegas which I have done many times. Next time we need to stay for at least 3-4 days and explore more in this beautiful mountain town.
Fall is peeking on our door step and I can feel it with the evenings and mornings cooling off. In the past I have started to dread October with it being breast cancer awareness month as well as the month back in 2014 when I found mine. This year however, I am super excited for fall and for the holiday's. I am not letting what the month of October get to me like it has in the past (extreme anxiety). Of course I fully support breast cancer awareness month and all it stands for. This year for me though, I am only going to focus on the holiday seasons that are around the corner and spending time with my family. I am looking so forward to the holidays and all the hoopla they bring. I am only hoping that my little girl (7th grade and 12-1/2 years old) will still want to dress up and Trick-or-Treat for Halloween. I never stopped until I was 20 so hopefully she won't either. I guess with her getting older it is bitter sweet. I am thankful I am still around to see her grow up but the teenage years that are upon me are going to be a challenge. I need to be patient and kind and understanding as she goes through the teenage years which tend to be equally as hard on the kids and parents.
Obviously we have been super busy and that is the reason for my lack of posting. This year so far has been the best year of my entire life. We are doing all we can to keep busy and explore new areas. Traveling is my passion and if I had a lot of money and time I would be traveling all of the time. For now we just do what we can. I don't have a large savings account but I don't care, I can't take the money with me anyway when I die so our motto is enjoy it while you have it and you feel good. If something major should happen we have plenty of toys we can sale to get by if we need to. I guess I look at those as an insurance policy.
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Wow, I cannot believe my last post was in January. Life has continued to move on and in a good way. Cancer is seriously the furthest thing from my mind although I do have occasional days where it surfaces and it is staring me in the face.
Since January I have been super busy enjoying my life. We started finishing our basement in February almost 2 years later than planned but it is done now and we love it. We have finished it into a full mother-in-law apartment so that if we ever get in a bind or something happens to one of us we can always rent it out. It was finished completely the beginning of May. We haven't really had time to enjoy it because we immediately started camping for the summer.
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| Beginning the framing, it was a huge mess. |
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| The finished and decorated fireplace. This is our favorite!!! |
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| Getting the kitchen put together, we still had to install the mircrowave. |
In March Jeff turned the big 40 and Kaci turned 12.
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| Kaci's idea to decorate the car before we left for dinner. |
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| I can't believe this is the last year before she becomes a teenager. |
We had our traditional Easter party that I came up a few years ago. We usually do it the Saturday before Easter and we have a yummy dinner and then an Easter Egg hunt for everybody in the dark outside in the back yard.
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| Before we headed outside to hunt for Eggs. The prize eggs this year were cash!!! |
Jeff finally graduated with his bachelors degree at the end of April. He should have been done almost 2 years ago but was delayed with me getting sick. We are super excited to finally have that stress gone from our lives. Kaci and I are enjoying having him home more.
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| Our little family. I was a little sentimental this day and cried a lot of happy tears because no matter what happened he never gave up. |
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| Jeff's parents and sister came to support him too. My mom was there but not for the photos since she stayed for my sister's graduation following Jeff's. |
In May Kaci finished out her 6th grade year. This year she was part of the choir and the student council which she loved. It was a great finish to her elementary years. Following her finishing school we took a last minute Memorial Day trip to Yellowstone. What an awesome time to visit Yellowstone, we saw so many animals including a mama grizzly bear and her two cubs. Next year we are going to plan ahead and get our reservations before the week we go.
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| Kaci on the right and her friend getting off of the elementary bus for the last time. The bus driver even bought all of the kids donuts. |
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| Yellowstone. |
In June we took out trailer up to the mountains where it stays all summer and were able to get in 2 camping trips prior to us leaving on an Alaskan cruise at the end the of the month. We went to Alaska to celebrate Jeff's graduation. We took Kaci and also went with Jeff's parents. We absolutely loved Alaska and can't wait to go back. We have it on our radar for another trip in the summer of 2019.
Something crazy happened to me after the first night of this cruise MY HOT FLASHES STOPPED. I am not sure why they stopped but I still haven't had a period since the last one if February. It was perfect timing because I was so worried being bundled up because Alaska is cold and then having to rip all of my layers off during a hot flash. It couldn't have stopped at a better time and made this trip even better. Until you have hot flashes all of the time you really don't realize how much they diminish your quality of life. This trip was so memorable and so good to be able to celebrate Jeff's graduation.
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| Mendenhall Glacier |
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| I added this one because it shows how long my hair is getting. 2 years and 3 months since finishing chemo. |
In July we camped almost every weekend, we enjoy decorating our RZR and then we go out driving with our neighbors for a night parade and sometimes we pass out candy for any bystanders.
My 43rd birthday was on July 30th and I decided I wanted to do something different and fun. So my niece, mom and the 3 of us headed up to Park City for the night. We went to the Park City Mountain resort to ride the alpine slides and the next day we went to the Utah Olympic Park where I ziplined o(on my actual birthday) down the Olympic ski jump hills. What an experience. I am not a daring person at all but I tried it and loved it.
August came fast and before we knew it school was getting ready to start. I have been dreading August all along because of Kaci starting Junior High. We did have a good August though. We booked a last minute condo for the night over Raspberry Days in Bear Lake and were able to go up on a Thursday night to enjoy the parade and the next morning we were able to drive around the lake, watch a play and have lunch before going home and then we headed up to the mountains for the weekend. It was super crazy getting home at 6:30PM and then packing some clothes and our cooler to head up to the mountains at 7:00PM. I love being busy and taking in everything every chance I get. I feel like life is so short and I want to do anything and everything I possibly can. The day before school started on August 21st we headed up to Riverton, WY to watch the total solar eclipse. Wow! I don't even know how to describe how cool it was experiencing something like that. Again this was my crazy idea and I was able to once again score a last minute hotel reservation in Rock Springs, WY which put us within 2 hours of Riverton. It was worth getting up that far so that the next morning we were close. Our original plan was to drive up to Idaho Falls the morning of and then drive home. I am so glad we didn't go that route because traffic was horrendous. I am so glad we did it as it was probably a once in a lifetime experience. After the sun started peeking back out we hit the road and didn't stop once. We brought our lunch with us and ate in the car. We were able to drive home in 4-1/2 hours with no traffic jams. We were at the very front of the traffic so we cruised right home and arrived at 4:30PM, just enough time to get showered and ready for Kaci's back to school night at the junior high. We were able to attend her orientation and find all of her classes. We were worried about missing it and I left it up to her if she wanted to go to the eclipse or not and she chose to take that chance. We were so happy we were able to do it all. We all slept really good that night even though it was the night before school started. She was up when her alarm went off and out the door by 6:50am to catch the bus. I worried all day about her and was hoping she would come home saying she loved junior high but also prepared for the worst in case she didn't like it. Well, she came home and said she loved it! She still loves it now and it has been about 2 weeks since it started.
Now it is September and for Labor Day weekend we took a girls trip up to Park City. It was my mom, Jeff's mom, Kaci and I. Jeff decided to finish out his last weekend of the deer archery hunt in the mountains. We love Park City during Labor Day. They have quite a few events up that way during this holiday weekend that we like to attend. One is Swiss Days which is the largest craft fair I have ever been to. I cannot even begin to guess at how many booths there were. The other is the Soldier Hollow Classic (sheepdog competitions). Of course this weekend we saw record high temperatures and it was almost too hot to enjoy all of these activities like we would like to. Regardless we still had fun and even went to the outlet stores to stock up on some more school clothes.
Jeff and I flew up to Spokane, WA the Thursday after Labor Day and then we shuttled over to Kellogg, ID to pick up our new car. We decided since our Honda is now 10 years old with 193,000 miles that is probably time to get a new car. Our last Honda was 10 years old with over 200,000 miles on it when we sold it. Both Honda's have been great cars and have never had any issues other than the regular maintenance. It was bitter sweet selling our car last week because of all of the memories. Jeff and I had a great 3 nights away, it was like a mini vacation for us and one that we have never done since we had Kaci over 12 years ago. The night we picked up our Jeep they gave us a hotel room in Kellogg so we stayed there. The next morning we got up early and headed out. I had reserved a very nice hotel in McCall Idaho, it is called the Shore Lodge. It was amazing and we had the best food while we were in town and really was the 2nd highlight of our trip since obviously picking up our Jeep was the first. The next day we headed out later in the afternoon since we wanted to soak up McCall for as long as we could and headed to Twin Falls. We stayed the night there and then headed for home on Sunday morning. Kaci was so excited to see us and we were excited to see her. This trip was very much needed and it shows us that we need to do these adult vacations more often. McCall Idaho is on our list of vacations in the future. From our house it is a 7 hour drive so about the same distance as Las Vegas which I have done many times. Next time we need to stay for at least 3-4 days and explore more in this beautiful mountain town.
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| Shore Lodge in McCall Idaho. It right on the lake. |
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| Twin Falls but not a lot of water flowing this time of the year. |
Obviously we have been super busy and that is the reason for my lack of posting. This year so far has been the best year of my entire life. We are doing all we can to keep busy and explore new areas. Traveling is my passion and if I had a lot of money and time I would be traveling all of the time. For now we just do what we can. I don't have a large savings account but I don't care, I can't take the money with me anyway when I die so our motto is enjoy it while you have it and you feel good. If something major should happen we have plenty of toys we can sale to get by if we need to. I guess I look at those as an insurance policy.
Friday, January 27, 2017
Defiant but loving life
I title this post "defiant" because that is how I feel right now. I have not resumed taking Tamoxifen and I have decided for now that I am not going to go the other route with ovarian suppression and taking aromatase inhibitors. I feel so good right now and I am going to enjoy it for as long as I can (I am hoping that is a really long time). I don't know where my life will take me but I am sure enjoying each and every day.
I also don't have a follow up oncologist appointment made like I normally do. I did have one set up with my new doctor at Huntsman in April but they called a couple of weeks ago and left me a voice mail telling me that the doctor wouldn't be in the office that day and that I needed to call back to reschedule. I have thought about calling but I kind of like not having that appointment to look forward do! I think for now I am just going to carry on, on my own and I know where they are at and I can call should I need them. For now I am taking my life back and most people would think I am crazy but I am doing what works best for me. I guess this is turning my life over to God. He will take me when he needs me no matter what I do or don't do in this life. I have all of my faith in Him and I think that is why I can live this way without a lot of fear and truly enjoy every day. If in the future if this comes back then I will deal with it at this time. I have promised myself that I won't say I wish I would have done things differently. I have been down that road and I was not myself. I was a walking zombie. I couldn't focus or multitask. I literally suffered each and every day just to get through walking up so dead tired, to going to work, to coming home and being a mom and wife. I didn't enjoy my life like I do now. In fact I enjoy my life more now than I ever have and I know that is because my cancer journey. After going through everything and then continuing the hormone therapy treatment and still not feeling better I have learned that we should not take our life or health for granted. Each day I am thankful for a goods nights rest that I am now able to have and I am thankful for a clear mind to tackle the days tasks, the list goes on and on. For me this works and I want a good quality of life over a zombie quantity of life.
January is always such a had month for me at the beginning coming off of the holidays but this year it didn't bother me because I am still so happy with how I feel. I can't go wrong in my day when I remind myself of how crappy I used to feel and how good I feel now. I appreciate life and feeling great every day. We took a very quick last minute trip up to Jackson Hole Wyoming a couple of weekends ago. We literally booked a hotel room at 6:00PM on Friday night and left at 9:00AM on Saturday with both of our mom's and headed up there. We had a scary drive as it was so cold and there was a lot of ice on the roads. The reason for this trip was to cross off my bucket list item of seeing The Grand Teton's in winter. Wow, they are beautiful in the winter. I was so happy and giddy with excitement for this little over night trip that I didn't think we could pull off. It was super cold, it was -19 degrees the next morning, I have never been in that cold of temperatures. While we were up there we did go to the elk refuge. We usually go to Hardware Ranch in Logan each year and this is actually how this trip started. I was talking to Jeff that Friday about going up to Logan on Sunday and then said I wish we could go to Jackson and see that refuge and then I can head over to The Tetons to see them in the winter and he said "let's do it". I immediately found a hotel and off we went. We only stayed one night and it took us about 5-1/2 hours to get there each way because of all the snow on the roads. It was one of the best trips I have ever had and I think planning it last minute made it all the better. This trip now has us planning a Yellowstone trip next January, another thing that I have always wanted to do.
We have decided that we are going to start getting our basement done. Over the holidays we re-did the fireplace wall and that was the last thing to do upstairs and I can say that my house looks completely different than it did during my cancer days. That was the whole reason for changing things up. I either had to move to get rid of those not so good memories or change up my house. I knew I really didn't want to move again, I really like the area we live so we changed our house. I want to get the basement done because Kaci is getting older and I need a place that her and her friends can hang out without us parents hoovering over her all the time. I am excited that either we can go down stairs while they hang out upstairs or they hang out downstairs while we stay upstairs. It will also be nice that we can keep a listening ear on what is going on but give them a bit more privacy as they head into their teenage years. We were going to wait until Jeff was done with school to start this project but now I am off my zombie drug (Tamoxifen) I can totally manage this project now that I am thinking clearly. We are so excited. We have both joked that once we get the basement done it is time to move (that is what happened in our last house). I don't think that will be the case with this house though.
We are looking forward to spring as Kaci starts having her dance competitions that I love watching, Jeff graduating at the end of April and then our Alaska cruise to celebrate in June and then of course camping, lots of camping. It is only a couple of more months and all the fun begins. I do like the late fall and winter for catching up on everything around the house that I don't have time for in the Spring and Summer. I love to be busy and going non-stop but I do look forward to winter when I can take time and relax a bit.
For now things are great and I am happy and confident in my choice to not take hormone therapy. Have I said how much I love feeling like myself again. Gosh, I can't say that enough.
I also don't have a follow up oncologist appointment made like I normally do. I did have one set up with my new doctor at Huntsman in April but they called a couple of weeks ago and left me a voice mail telling me that the doctor wouldn't be in the office that day and that I needed to call back to reschedule. I have thought about calling but I kind of like not having that appointment to look forward do! I think for now I am just going to carry on, on my own and I know where they are at and I can call should I need them. For now I am taking my life back and most people would think I am crazy but I am doing what works best for me. I guess this is turning my life over to God. He will take me when he needs me no matter what I do or don't do in this life. I have all of my faith in Him and I think that is why I can live this way without a lot of fear and truly enjoy every day. If in the future if this comes back then I will deal with it at this time. I have promised myself that I won't say I wish I would have done things differently. I have been down that road and I was not myself. I was a walking zombie. I couldn't focus or multitask. I literally suffered each and every day just to get through walking up so dead tired, to going to work, to coming home and being a mom and wife. I didn't enjoy my life like I do now. In fact I enjoy my life more now than I ever have and I know that is because my cancer journey. After going through everything and then continuing the hormone therapy treatment and still not feeling better I have learned that we should not take our life or health for granted. Each day I am thankful for a goods nights rest that I am now able to have and I am thankful for a clear mind to tackle the days tasks, the list goes on and on. For me this works and I want a good quality of life over a zombie quantity of life.
January is always such a had month for me at the beginning coming off of the holidays but this year it didn't bother me because I am still so happy with how I feel. I can't go wrong in my day when I remind myself of how crappy I used to feel and how good I feel now. I appreciate life and feeling great every day. We took a very quick last minute trip up to Jackson Hole Wyoming a couple of weekends ago. We literally booked a hotel room at 6:00PM on Friday night and left at 9:00AM on Saturday with both of our mom's and headed up there. We had a scary drive as it was so cold and there was a lot of ice on the roads. The reason for this trip was to cross off my bucket list item of seeing The Grand Teton's in winter. Wow, they are beautiful in the winter. I was so happy and giddy with excitement for this little over night trip that I didn't think we could pull off. It was super cold, it was -19 degrees the next morning, I have never been in that cold of temperatures. While we were up there we did go to the elk refuge. We usually go to Hardware Ranch in Logan each year and this is actually how this trip started. I was talking to Jeff that Friday about going up to Logan on Sunday and then said I wish we could go to Jackson and see that refuge and then I can head over to The Tetons to see them in the winter and he said "let's do it". I immediately found a hotel and off we went. We only stayed one night and it took us about 5-1/2 hours to get there each way because of all the snow on the roads. It was one of the best trips I have ever had and I think planning it last minute made it all the better. This trip now has us planning a Yellowstone trip next January, another thing that I have always wanted to do.
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| The beautiful Grand Teton's in the winter #bucketlist |
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| The road into Colter Bay where we like to stay in Grand Teton National Park |
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| I broke this off and took it to Kaci, she thought that was the coolest thing ever. |
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| The 3 of us at Colter Bay in Grand Teton National Park it was still about negative -10. |
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| The elk refuge in Jackson Hole, WY |
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| All of us after the sleigh ride at the elk refuge, we were freezing cold. |
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| Kaci and Jeff in our see through fireplace in the hotel. |
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| Me and Jeff at dinner at The Lift in Jackson Hole, WY |
We have decided that we are going to start getting our basement done. Over the holidays we re-did the fireplace wall and that was the last thing to do upstairs and I can say that my house looks completely different than it did during my cancer days. That was the whole reason for changing things up. I either had to move to get rid of those not so good memories or change up my house. I knew I really didn't want to move again, I really like the area we live so we changed our house. I want to get the basement done because Kaci is getting older and I need a place that her and her friends can hang out without us parents hoovering over her all the time. I am excited that either we can go down stairs while they hang out upstairs or they hang out downstairs while we stay upstairs. It will also be nice that we can keep a listening ear on what is going on but give them a bit more privacy as they head into their teenage years. We were going to wait until Jeff was done with school to start this project but now I am off my zombie drug (Tamoxifen) I can totally manage this project now that I am thinking clearly. We are so excited. We have both joked that once we get the basement done it is time to move (that is what happened in our last house). I don't think that will be the case with this house though.
We are looking forward to spring as Kaci starts having her dance competitions that I love watching, Jeff graduating at the end of April and then our Alaska cruise to celebrate in June and then of course camping, lots of camping. It is only a couple of more months and all the fun begins. I do like the late fall and winter for catching up on everything around the house that I don't have time for in the Spring and Summer. I love to be busy and going non-stop but I do look forward to winter when I can take time and relax a bit.
For now things are great and I am happy and confident in my choice to not take hormone therapy. Have I said how much I love feeling like myself again. Gosh, I can't say that enough.
Sunday, January 8, 2017
Life is good
It is now 2017 and I have a feeling it is going to be a really good year. Jeff is set to graduate with his Bachelor's Degree in April (it has been a really long 11 years). I am probably more excited than him. He has taken his time and only took up to three classes at one time which I am thankful for. We have still been able to do so much with our little family. It is going to be weird to not make plans around his school. He has worked so hard and I delayed him about a year when I got diagnosed. Right after diagnosis he failed his one class, I felt so responsible for it but was so thankful that he immediately knew that I was his priority and he let the class go. Then the next semester he couldn't go because I was in active treatment and I need so much help around the house and with Kaci. Then summer came and I begged him to not take a class, I wanted to be able to camp as much as we could and enjoy life and he agreed. He already works in his job and won't get a raise or anything but it is nice to know that he has this to fall back on.
As for me I am continuing to work 35 hours a week and I am loving having three day weekends. It really is so good for me to have Friday's to do some chores and take some time for myself so that when the weekend hits I am ready and willing to do fun things with my family. I am so thankful for my employer, they seriously could not be any better to me. I always tell them thank you for everything they have done for me and they reply with "well you are family". I am so blessed to work where I do. I very rarely get stressed which is good because I do not need any more stress in my life other than worrying about my cancer coming back! They are so flexible with my schedule when I need to run to a doctor appointment or if Kaci has something at school.
Christmas was amazing this year. Everything was so relaxed and went so smooth. I had 13 days off from work and the first day off I had all to myself to rest and gear up for the next few days that I thought were going to be super crazy. Kaci got out of school on Wednesday at 1:30PM and I took her and her friends to a movie and then shopping for a new outfit for each of them, then we came back to the house and they exchanged their friend gifts, we made pizza and frosted cookies. It was a crazy fun afternoon and evening. I love her friends so much. They are all such good kids and I love that they want to be at our house to hang out. Friday was Jeff's first day off for the holidays and we just took it easy and hung out with our friends that evening. I always love when we get together with these friends, we don't do it often enough but when we do we pick up right where we left off. Saturday was Christmas Eve and we had my mom and Jeff's Dad and step mom over for an early dinner because the weather was starting to turn, we were having such heavy rain that was expected to turn to snow that night. We had dinner, did a few presents and frosted cookies. Everybody left by 5:30PM which was so strange, usually everyone is there until about 8 or 9PM. My niece called and wanted to come over for a while so we went to pick her up and had fun playing cards for over two hours. It really was such a nice Christmas Eve, and it was still only raining when we went to bed. The next morning we woke up to so much snow. My mom came over in the morning and did presents with us and breakfast. The snow kept coming and I was worried about our parents having to travel to our home for dinner in all that snow. My mom lives close but Jeff's parents live about an hour or so away. We called them to tell them we could do our Christmas dinner the next night if they wanted to but they all still wanted to come up. We had our dinner at 3PM and everybody was gone by 5PM. My niece came over about eight that night and spent the night with us. I woke the girls up the next morning at five to go out and hit the stores with me. I love finding bargains the day after Christmas. We were home by ten and then I started taking down all the decorations. The next day we had a company coming over to re-do our fireplace wall in our living room, that was our family Christmas present to ourselves. It was the very last thing to do with my upstairs to change the look of my house. I am very pleased with the way it turned out and next we will move on and finish the basement. We had a perfect amount of relaxation, fun and doing home improvements during our break. If this Christmas was my last I would be totally satisfied. I have never enjoyed the holiday's more than I did this year. I don't know what made it so great but I have a feeling that it is because after everything I have gone through I don't take things as seriously as I once did and things don't bother me like they did before and I felt so good!!!! I was just able to sit back and soak up all the family time I could.
New Years Eve is always such a dreaded holiday for me and I really do not know why. We took our mom's with us this year to the Midway Ice Caves and to dinner at the Homestead. We had a wonderful time and got home about 11:50PM right before the New Year. Again great quality family time.
So as we start this new year I am not worried any longer about not being on Tamoxifen. I am enjoying my new/old quality of life. I say new/old because I haven't felt this good in over two years (new) and I suspect this is how good I felt before my cancer diagnosis (old). I still have days where I am having hot flashes and other days that I don't have hot flashes so I really don't think I can be pre-menopausal like my last hormone test showed. The hot flashes I am having still suck but they are still not as intense as they were while I was on Tamoxifen. I think I have to be in peri-menopause but who knows. I have been off of Tamoxifen for almost two months and I still have not started my period. I am trying not to think about where my hormone levels are nor will I let my mind travel down that road any longer and waste this time feeling so bood. Since I have made this decision I am comfortable with it. My faith in God is strong and I have all my faith in Him. If he needs me, there isn't anything I can do to change that. For now I live each day to its fullest. I am enjoying each and everyday and I am even enjoying all the fluffy white stuff that keeps coming our way out here in Utah. Snow really is pretty, it is all white and pure and so fluffy, I just don't like traveling in it. I still enjoy summertime the most because I am such an outdoors type person. I am happiest when I am in the mountains and can be outside without freezing.
My next oncologist appointment is in April with my new doctor. I am still wondering which doctor I want to see. The new doctor is so far away from my house and it is a pain to meet Jeff or try and arrange for my mom to come and have some back up for Kaci to get to dance since he only sees patients on Thursday's. I was hoping to hear from my old oncologists' office about stopping Tamoxifen so I could also ask going forward, should I chose to still go there and since they aren't on my insurance any more how that will all work. I haven't heard from them and his PA said she was going to call me at the end of December regarding my Tamoxifen decision. I know they are busy people and I really don't care because at this point in my life I don't feel that a 5% benefit is worth feeling so crappy. I guess for now I will probably just go to the appointment that I already have scheduled with my new doctor at Huntsman.
Life is good and it is even going to get better when Jeff is done with school and all of his school related stress is gone. I am sure he will relax a whole lot. There has been some trying times for sure as the stress builds for him. I am excited to finally live our married life with us just working and concentrating on our Kaci girl and making sure she grows up to be a healthy, happy person. Did I say life is good?
As for me I am continuing to work 35 hours a week and I am loving having three day weekends. It really is so good for me to have Friday's to do some chores and take some time for myself so that when the weekend hits I am ready and willing to do fun things with my family. I am so thankful for my employer, they seriously could not be any better to me. I always tell them thank you for everything they have done for me and they reply with "well you are family". I am so blessed to work where I do. I very rarely get stressed which is good because I do not need any more stress in my life other than worrying about my cancer coming back! They are so flexible with my schedule when I need to run to a doctor appointment or if Kaci has something at school.
Christmas was amazing this year. Everything was so relaxed and went so smooth. I had 13 days off from work and the first day off I had all to myself to rest and gear up for the next few days that I thought were going to be super crazy. Kaci got out of school on Wednesday at 1:30PM and I took her and her friends to a movie and then shopping for a new outfit for each of them, then we came back to the house and they exchanged their friend gifts, we made pizza and frosted cookies. It was a crazy fun afternoon and evening. I love her friends so much. They are all such good kids and I love that they want to be at our house to hang out. Friday was Jeff's first day off for the holidays and we just took it easy and hung out with our friends that evening. I always love when we get together with these friends, we don't do it often enough but when we do we pick up right where we left off. Saturday was Christmas Eve and we had my mom and Jeff's Dad and step mom over for an early dinner because the weather was starting to turn, we were having such heavy rain that was expected to turn to snow that night. We had dinner, did a few presents and frosted cookies. Everybody left by 5:30PM which was so strange, usually everyone is there until about 8 or 9PM. My niece called and wanted to come over for a while so we went to pick her up and had fun playing cards for over two hours. It really was such a nice Christmas Eve, and it was still only raining when we went to bed. The next morning we woke up to so much snow. My mom came over in the morning and did presents with us and breakfast. The snow kept coming and I was worried about our parents having to travel to our home for dinner in all that snow. My mom lives close but Jeff's parents live about an hour or so away. We called them to tell them we could do our Christmas dinner the next night if they wanted to but they all still wanted to come up. We had our dinner at 3PM and everybody was gone by 5PM. My niece came over about eight that night and spent the night with us. I woke the girls up the next morning at five to go out and hit the stores with me. I love finding bargains the day after Christmas. We were home by ten and then I started taking down all the decorations. The next day we had a company coming over to re-do our fireplace wall in our living room, that was our family Christmas present to ourselves. It was the very last thing to do with my upstairs to change the look of my house. I am very pleased with the way it turned out and next we will move on and finish the basement. We had a perfect amount of relaxation, fun and doing home improvements during our break. If this Christmas was my last I would be totally satisfied. I have never enjoyed the holiday's more than I did this year. I don't know what made it so great but I have a feeling that it is because after everything I have gone through I don't take things as seriously as I once did and things don't bother me like they did before and I felt so good!!!! I was just able to sit back and soak up all the family time I could.
New Years Eve is always such a dreaded holiday for me and I really do not know why. We took our mom's with us this year to the Midway Ice Caves and to dinner at the Homestead. We had a wonderful time and got home about 11:50PM right before the New Year. Again great quality family time.
So as we start this new year I am not worried any longer about not being on Tamoxifen. I am enjoying my new/old quality of life. I say new/old because I haven't felt this good in over two years (new) and I suspect this is how good I felt before my cancer diagnosis (old). I still have days where I am having hot flashes and other days that I don't have hot flashes so I really don't think I can be pre-menopausal like my last hormone test showed. The hot flashes I am having still suck but they are still not as intense as they were while I was on Tamoxifen. I think I have to be in peri-menopause but who knows. I have been off of Tamoxifen for almost two months and I still have not started my period. I am trying not to think about where my hormone levels are nor will I let my mind travel down that road any longer and waste this time feeling so bood. Since I have made this decision I am comfortable with it. My faith in God is strong and I have all my faith in Him. If he needs me, there isn't anything I can do to change that. For now I live each day to its fullest. I am enjoying each and everyday and I am even enjoying all the fluffy white stuff that keeps coming our way out here in Utah. Snow really is pretty, it is all white and pure and so fluffy, I just don't like traveling in it. I still enjoy summertime the most because I am such an outdoors type person. I am happiest when I am in the mountains and can be outside without freezing.
My next oncologist appointment is in April with my new doctor. I am still wondering which doctor I want to see. The new doctor is so far away from my house and it is a pain to meet Jeff or try and arrange for my mom to come and have some back up for Kaci to get to dance since he only sees patients on Thursday's. I was hoping to hear from my old oncologists' office about stopping Tamoxifen so I could also ask going forward, should I chose to still go there and since they aren't on my insurance any more how that will all work. I haven't heard from them and his PA said she was going to call me at the end of December regarding my Tamoxifen decision. I know they are busy people and I really don't care because at this point in my life I don't feel that a 5% benefit is worth feeling so crappy. I guess for now I will probably just go to the appointment that I already have scheduled with my new doctor at Huntsman.
Life is good and it is even going to get better when Jeff is done with school and all of his school related stress is gone. I am sure he will relax a whole lot. There has been some trying times for sure as the stress builds for him. I am excited to finally live our married life with us just working and concentrating on our Kaci girl and making sure she grows up to be a healthy, happy person. Did I say life is good?
Friday, December 16, 2016
Officially out of "chemopause" and a visit to Huntsman Cancer Institute
My post below is titled I am not in menopause any longer, however what I have been in has been "chemopause" and it can take a couple of years or more for your ovaries to "wake up". Well mine have awaken. It could be a blessing or a curse. I am going to consider it a blessing. I still feel sooooo good. While I am not having the severe sweaty hot flashes any more I still get warm flushes and I have had a few of them this week that have been worse than the past two weeks but they are so easy to get through compared to what I used to have while I was taking Tamoxifen.
Today marks 2 years since I started chemo and 2 years since my cycle shut down (I was actually on my period when I started chemo and two days later it abruptly stopped and has never come back). I still have not started my period and we don't know for sure when my ovaries "woke up" because most women don't have a period on Tamoxifen anyway. Here are the exact results of my hormone test from July 28th and then again on November 28th. My estradiol level back at the end of July was 6.3 and FSH was 48 (clearly post-menopausal) and my estradiol level on November 28th was 359.7 and FSH is 19 (clearly pre-menopausal). I have been so scared since I found this out on December 2nd thinking that my hormones are running wild through my body. I am still taking a drug holiday from Tamoxifen and enjoying every minute of it. I have been researching the benefits and risks steady with every spare moment I have.
Today I had my much anticipated appointment with Dr. C down at The Huntsman Cancer Institute in SLC, Utah. I have decided that I wanted to talk to another oncologist about my care going forward. He actually specializes in breast oncology, I had no idea such a doctor existed. I just thought that an oncologist was an oncologist and that there was not a specialty within the field. I also decided to move my care down there just in case my cancer ever comes back. I have always said that if it comes back I am going to Huntsman. I figured now was a good time as any to get established. I would rather be established now where I only have to go to my check ups a few times a year anyway. Huntsman is about an hour and twenty minutes from my house. My appointment was about two hours long. I had to answer a ton of questions and then his physician assistant came in and spent the first hour with me. She had me tell my story and asked about my hobbies and family. It was really nice. Then she did an exam of my chest wall and lymph nodes in my arms. Then Dr. C came in and sat down to chat. We talked mostly about my frustrations with hormone therapy. I wanted to know my benefit vs. risk of taking the drug. He punched in some numbers regarding me and my cancer and I found that my benefit really isn't that high. The way I have been made to feel is that those drugs are almost a life and death decision and today I feel totally differently about it. He said while there is a benefit for me it only about a 5% benefit over 10 years. Honestly that number isn't that high for me to go back to feeling so crappy each and every day, of course I could be one of those 5 women who pass away from breast cancer because I didn't take the hormone therapy drugs. For now I am going to continue my drug holiday and it will probably be an extended drug holiday but I do know I will never go back on Tamoxifen, there were too many side effects for me and some more series than others. I asked about taking 10mg of Tamoxifen instead and he said the same thing as my other doctors and that is 10mg has not been studied. He said he has one patient who takes 10mg because she cannot handle the side effects for 20mg however he cannot say if she is benefiting from it or not but it is something she chooses to do. While I wanted to consider this lower dose I really don't want any side effects from it especially if it isn't doing any good at the lower dose anyway. I also asked him if I received any benefit from Tamoxifen since I only took it for a year and 5 months and he said absolutely. He said there is a benefit to any amount however they would like you on it for 5 to 10 years.
In the future I might decide to try the ovary suppression injections and see how I handle them and then possibly try one of the aromatase inhibitor drugs. I was so hoping my hormone levels would have still showed post menopausal so I could just try these drugs without having to suppress my ovaries. I do want to at least try it sometime down the road because if my cancer every comes back I want to know that I tried everything available to me. I know if I don't like it then I can just chose not to do it and the injection that puts you into menopause wears off after a month anyway so I really have nothing to lose but right now I am not sure I even want to do that. I will continue to think about it and if/when I am ready to give it a try he said to call and make an appointment, otherwise he told me that he wants to see me every three months for now and all we will do is an exam and talk about how I feel (I made my next appointment but pushed it out 4 months, just to give me some more time). He said he won't be doing any blood work because that really isn't any indication of the cancer coming back or not. He also said no to pet scans just like my previous doctors. He said if it comes back it doesn't matter when you find it, it is incurable either way and the survival rates are the same. Also with my type of breast cancer being lobular it is very hard to find on imaging anyway unless it is very large. That is the reason all the imagining I initially had didn't show it in my lymph node but it was there and it was quite large at 1cm. With lobular it grows in a single row of cells and branches out in a web like pattern. It is very hard to detect and when most women find it, it is usually quite large. I am okay with not having any pet scans because I can only imagine the anxiety they would give me. He said my kind of cancer usually spreads to the stomach and not the usual, brain, bones or liver like ductal breast cancer does. He said if I have any unexplained pain that doesn't go away after two weeks then call him and he will check it out. It was nice getting this second opinion because everything was reiterated and exactly the same as my other oncologist who I really like. The only difference with this appointment is that he could help me get some statistics about my benefit of the hormone therapy drugs that my other doctors could not.
The University of Utah ordered all of my tumor slides from Ogden prior to my appointment and conducted their own pathology test and they have decided to down grade my stage to a IIB instead of a IIIA. While this wouldn't have changed the course of my treatment in any way it sure helps me mentally to know that I am a stage II and not a stage III. He said he doesn't feel the other pathologist did anything wrong, however he said he trusts his pathologists more and they chose to look at my tumor differently. He explained it and while I cannot explain it with words, he actually drew on paper how they came to that conclusion. Either way it doesn't matter but it does make me feel better.
Overall I am happy to be at one of the best hospitals in the country and look forward to continuing my care with them. Another easy decision for me to change doctors is that my current oncologist is no longer on my insurance. I am not sure how that works if I wanted to stay with them. I can't imagine really liking your doctor and not just any doctor but your medical oncologist only to not be able to go to them anymore. I think the timing of all of this is a sign for me that I have made the right choices going forward.
For now I am going to go and live my life and not let the decision that may or may not lie ahead consume my time of feeling so good like it has the past 4 weeks since I quite Tamoxifen.
Today marks 2 years since I started chemo and 2 years since my cycle shut down (I was actually on my period when I started chemo and two days later it abruptly stopped and has never come back). I still have not started my period and we don't know for sure when my ovaries "woke up" because most women don't have a period on Tamoxifen anyway. Here are the exact results of my hormone test from July 28th and then again on November 28th. My estradiol level back at the end of July was 6.3 and FSH was 48 (clearly post-menopausal) and my estradiol level on November 28th was 359.7 and FSH is 19 (clearly pre-menopausal). I have been so scared since I found this out on December 2nd thinking that my hormones are running wild through my body. I am still taking a drug holiday from Tamoxifen and enjoying every minute of it. I have been researching the benefits and risks steady with every spare moment I have.
Today I had my much anticipated appointment with Dr. C down at The Huntsman Cancer Institute in SLC, Utah. I have decided that I wanted to talk to another oncologist about my care going forward. He actually specializes in breast oncology, I had no idea such a doctor existed. I just thought that an oncologist was an oncologist and that there was not a specialty within the field. I also decided to move my care down there just in case my cancer ever comes back. I have always said that if it comes back I am going to Huntsman. I figured now was a good time as any to get established. I would rather be established now where I only have to go to my check ups a few times a year anyway. Huntsman is about an hour and twenty minutes from my house. My appointment was about two hours long. I had to answer a ton of questions and then his physician assistant came in and spent the first hour with me. She had me tell my story and asked about my hobbies and family. It was really nice. Then she did an exam of my chest wall and lymph nodes in my arms. Then Dr. C came in and sat down to chat. We talked mostly about my frustrations with hormone therapy. I wanted to know my benefit vs. risk of taking the drug. He punched in some numbers regarding me and my cancer and I found that my benefit really isn't that high. The way I have been made to feel is that those drugs are almost a life and death decision and today I feel totally differently about it. He said while there is a benefit for me it only about a 5% benefit over 10 years. Honestly that number isn't that high for me to go back to feeling so crappy each and every day, of course I could be one of those 5 women who pass away from breast cancer because I didn't take the hormone therapy drugs. For now I am going to continue my drug holiday and it will probably be an extended drug holiday but I do know I will never go back on Tamoxifen, there were too many side effects for me and some more series than others. I asked about taking 10mg of Tamoxifen instead and he said the same thing as my other doctors and that is 10mg has not been studied. He said he has one patient who takes 10mg because she cannot handle the side effects for 20mg however he cannot say if she is benefiting from it or not but it is something she chooses to do. While I wanted to consider this lower dose I really don't want any side effects from it especially if it isn't doing any good at the lower dose anyway. I also asked him if I received any benefit from Tamoxifen since I only took it for a year and 5 months and he said absolutely. He said there is a benefit to any amount however they would like you on it for 5 to 10 years.
In the future I might decide to try the ovary suppression injections and see how I handle them and then possibly try one of the aromatase inhibitor drugs. I was so hoping my hormone levels would have still showed post menopausal so I could just try these drugs without having to suppress my ovaries. I do want to at least try it sometime down the road because if my cancer every comes back I want to know that I tried everything available to me. I know if I don't like it then I can just chose not to do it and the injection that puts you into menopause wears off after a month anyway so I really have nothing to lose but right now I am not sure I even want to do that. I will continue to think about it and if/when I am ready to give it a try he said to call and make an appointment, otherwise he told me that he wants to see me every three months for now and all we will do is an exam and talk about how I feel (I made my next appointment but pushed it out 4 months, just to give me some more time). He said he won't be doing any blood work because that really isn't any indication of the cancer coming back or not. He also said no to pet scans just like my previous doctors. He said if it comes back it doesn't matter when you find it, it is incurable either way and the survival rates are the same. Also with my type of breast cancer being lobular it is very hard to find on imaging anyway unless it is very large. That is the reason all the imagining I initially had didn't show it in my lymph node but it was there and it was quite large at 1cm. With lobular it grows in a single row of cells and branches out in a web like pattern. It is very hard to detect and when most women find it, it is usually quite large. I am okay with not having any pet scans because I can only imagine the anxiety they would give me. He said my kind of cancer usually spreads to the stomach and not the usual, brain, bones or liver like ductal breast cancer does. He said if I have any unexplained pain that doesn't go away after two weeks then call him and he will check it out. It was nice getting this second opinion because everything was reiterated and exactly the same as my other oncologist who I really like. The only difference with this appointment is that he could help me get some statistics about my benefit of the hormone therapy drugs that my other doctors could not.
The University of Utah ordered all of my tumor slides from Ogden prior to my appointment and conducted their own pathology test and they have decided to down grade my stage to a IIB instead of a IIIA. While this wouldn't have changed the course of my treatment in any way it sure helps me mentally to know that I am a stage II and not a stage III. He said he doesn't feel the other pathologist did anything wrong, however he said he trusts his pathologists more and they chose to look at my tumor differently. He explained it and while I cannot explain it with words, he actually drew on paper how they came to that conclusion. Either way it doesn't matter but it does make me feel better.
Overall I am happy to be at one of the best hospitals in the country and look forward to continuing my care with them. Another easy decision for me to change doctors is that my current oncologist is no longer on my insurance. I am not sure how that works if I wanted to stay with them. I can't imagine really liking your doctor and not just any doctor but your medical oncologist only to not be able to go to them anymore. I think the timing of all of this is a sign for me that I have made the right choices going forward.
For now I am going to go and live my life and not let the decision that may or may not lie ahead consume my time of feeling so good like it has the past 4 weeks since I quite Tamoxifen.
Sunday, December 4, 2016
"I AM NOT IN CHEMOPAUSE ANY LONGER"
I can hardly believe it, my hormone test I had last Monday on November 28th shows that I am no longer menopausal. My doctor called me last Friday, December 2nd with the results. I do not know how I feel about this. I know they kept telling me that this could happen but I didn't believe them because of how bad my menopausal side effects were. Now I know why on my "Tamoxifen holiday" my hot flashes are gone and have been replaced by a little tiny warm flush that most of the time I don't even notice.
I had this same test at the end of July which still showed menopause and now it doesn't. The levels have climbed so high in the last 4 months. While this would be good news for any other woman dealing with cancer to come out of "chemopause" after almost 2 years (it was 2 years ago on December 15th that my cycle shut down), for me this is not good news at all. Because my tumor was 100% percent estrogen receptor positive (meaning it used the estrogen in my body to grow) the doctors are telling me that we have to eliminate/ reduce the estrogen in my body. This is also bad news because when they called me with the results on Friday she said the only option for me is to go back on Tamoxifen. I started crying, I do not want to go back on that drug. Even with my ovaries "waking up" and my hormone levels returning to normal over the course of the last 4 months my hot flashes not once subsided nor did any of the other bothersome side effects. Of course there are other options for me to shut down my ovaries temporarily and also permanently to eliminate the amount of estrogen and also to be able to take an armomatase inhibitor blocker.
I was so hoping my levels would still show menopause and in fact I knew they would so when she gave me this news, I was completely shocked. I know now that my hot flashes were being kept so strong from the Tamoxifen. I was hoping by being on a drug holiday it meant that my body has transitioned itself and had gotten used to menopause and that naturally my hot flashes have subsided. Now I know the reason for not having hot flashes and it scares me so bad. It scares me for many different reasons. Estrogen running full force through my body can make my cancer come back but on the other hand I feel like a normal person again. I know that no matter which way I chose to go from here I will have to go through the miserable hot flashes yet again because I would never dare take any kind of estrogen therapy like most menopausal women can take to help ease the symptoms.
I get to continue my drug holiday through the end of December. I see my new doctor at Huntsman on the 15th. I am so anxious for this appointment. I am hoping he can help me by giving me some statistics should I never go back on these blockers. For some reason they cannot give me any information at my current oncologists office as to a percentage of benefit for taking the blockers. In a way I don't know if it even matters. The more time that passes by feeling absolutely great, the more I am thinking of doing nothing as far as taking any more medications. I still want the 2nd opinion however before I make my final decision. I can't believe how much my life has turned around just from stopping this drug and of course my hormone levels coming back have the majority to do with how good I feel. I am 100% completely myself again after 2 freaking years!!! The only side effect that I feel lingering from chemo now is just the arthritis in my ankles. It started the May after I finished chemo in 2015 but everything else is gone, completely gone! I never in a million years ever expected to feel this great again. I have been praying for so long to get some relief and now here it is in front of me. Do I take this as an answer to my prayers? Do I stay off of these drugs that were making me feel so lousy? Am I sealing my fate as to how I am going to die? There are so many questions but I have to believe and I do believe that God is in control and I will die when and how I am supposed to no matter my decision. I did do everything that was suggested to me when I was diagnosed, I chose to do a bilateral mastectomy so I didn't have to worry about cancer in the other breast, I completed 4 A/C cycles, 4 dose dense Taxol cycles and I can't even remember how many weeks of radiation. Each of those was so very hard and there were many times when I almost quit chemo, I honestly don't know how I pushed through it. Radiation was very hard too and I almost cut that short too but I didn't. I have completed almost a year and a half of Tamoxifen which I suppose it better than nothing at all.
Nothing is ever easy for me through this cancer journey, there is always something that comes up to make it 10 times harder and here I am yet again. I need to go to the store and stock up on feminine hygiene products since I threw them all out over a year ago, just in case my period comes back. In fact my doctor said it will more than likely come back and I need to be prepared and keep something with me just in case. I can't believe I will probably get my period again and I am still in absolute shock that my ovaries have woken up especially since last December when I had a pelvic ultrasound she couldn't even find my one ovary, it had shriveled so much.
I have a lot of decisions to make in the next while. I may chose to try the injections to shut down my ovaries temporarily (it shuts them down for about 3 months at a time) and see how I feel and then possibly try one of the A/I blockers. If it isn't too bad then I will do another 3 months and try up to all 3 of the drugs to see if I can tolerate one better than another. I do know that if they make me feel anything like the Tamoxifen that I won't do it because my quality of life is so much more important than my quantity of life. I want to be able to enjoy my life and feel good and at least participate in things that I have been having to sit out for so long. If I can tolerate the A/I blockers along with the ovary suppression then I may decide to just get my ovaries taken out permanently and not have to worry about it.
For now I am enjoying each day and night. It is amazing how good sleep can make you feel and act. I feel like I am no longer on edge most of the day. I am so happy and cheerful because I know these days won't last forever and while I am in them I must make the best of them and not take them for granted. I love that I am at a comfortable temperature now. I am not tossing clothes back and forth every few minutes which drove me crazy. Of course I still get cold and hot but like a normal person now. I can think again with a 100% clear mind, or at least it feels like 100% compared to how I have been thinking the last two years. I don't even know if I felt this normal before cancer treatments. It has been so long.
Again I ask myself, is this the answer to my prayers??? I would like to think that it is. I will continue to pray for clarity as these decisions are all in front of me as to what to do. It is so hard to think about going back to my LIVING HELL just to get more years here on this earth.
I had this same test at the end of July which still showed menopause and now it doesn't. The levels have climbed so high in the last 4 months. While this would be good news for any other woman dealing with cancer to come out of "chemopause" after almost 2 years (it was 2 years ago on December 15th that my cycle shut down), for me this is not good news at all. Because my tumor was 100% percent estrogen receptor positive (meaning it used the estrogen in my body to grow) the doctors are telling me that we have to eliminate/ reduce the estrogen in my body. This is also bad news because when they called me with the results on Friday she said the only option for me is to go back on Tamoxifen. I started crying, I do not want to go back on that drug. Even with my ovaries "waking up" and my hormone levels returning to normal over the course of the last 4 months my hot flashes not once subsided nor did any of the other bothersome side effects. Of course there are other options for me to shut down my ovaries temporarily and also permanently to eliminate the amount of estrogen and also to be able to take an armomatase inhibitor blocker.
I was so hoping my levels would still show menopause and in fact I knew they would so when she gave me this news, I was completely shocked. I know now that my hot flashes were being kept so strong from the Tamoxifen. I was hoping by being on a drug holiday it meant that my body has transitioned itself and had gotten used to menopause and that naturally my hot flashes have subsided. Now I know the reason for not having hot flashes and it scares me so bad. It scares me for many different reasons. Estrogen running full force through my body can make my cancer come back but on the other hand I feel like a normal person again. I know that no matter which way I chose to go from here I will have to go through the miserable hot flashes yet again because I would never dare take any kind of estrogen therapy like most menopausal women can take to help ease the symptoms.
I get to continue my drug holiday through the end of December. I see my new doctor at Huntsman on the 15th. I am so anxious for this appointment. I am hoping he can help me by giving me some statistics should I never go back on these blockers. For some reason they cannot give me any information at my current oncologists office as to a percentage of benefit for taking the blockers. In a way I don't know if it even matters. The more time that passes by feeling absolutely great, the more I am thinking of doing nothing as far as taking any more medications. I still want the 2nd opinion however before I make my final decision. I can't believe how much my life has turned around just from stopping this drug and of course my hormone levels coming back have the majority to do with how good I feel. I am 100% completely myself again after 2 freaking years!!! The only side effect that I feel lingering from chemo now is just the arthritis in my ankles. It started the May after I finished chemo in 2015 but everything else is gone, completely gone! I never in a million years ever expected to feel this great again. I have been praying for so long to get some relief and now here it is in front of me. Do I take this as an answer to my prayers? Do I stay off of these drugs that were making me feel so lousy? Am I sealing my fate as to how I am going to die? There are so many questions but I have to believe and I do believe that God is in control and I will die when and how I am supposed to no matter my decision. I did do everything that was suggested to me when I was diagnosed, I chose to do a bilateral mastectomy so I didn't have to worry about cancer in the other breast, I completed 4 A/C cycles, 4 dose dense Taxol cycles and I can't even remember how many weeks of radiation. Each of those was so very hard and there were many times when I almost quit chemo, I honestly don't know how I pushed through it. Radiation was very hard too and I almost cut that short too but I didn't. I have completed almost a year and a half of Tamoxifen which I suppose it better than nothing at all.
Nothing is ever easy for me through this cancer journey, there is always something that comes up to make it 10 times harder and here I am yet again. I need to go to the store and stock up on feminine hygiene products since I threw them all out over a year ago, just in case my period comes back. In fact my doctor said it will more than likely come back and I need to be prepared and keep something with me just in case. I can't believe I will probably get my period again and I am still in absolute shock that my ovaries have woken up especially since last December when I had a pelvic ultrasound she couldn't even find my one ovary, it had shriveled so much.
I have a lot of decisions to make in the next while. I may chose to try the injections to shut down my ovaries temporarily (it shuts them down for about 3 months at a time) and see how I feel and then possibly try one of the A/I blockers. If it isn't too bad then I will do another 3 months and try up to all 3 of the drugs to see if I can tolerate one better than another. I do know that if they make me feel anything like the Tamoxifen that I won't do it because my quality of life is so much more important than my quantity of life. I want to be able to enjoy my life and feel good and at least participate in things that I have been having to sit out for so long. If I can tolerate the A/I blockers along with the ovary suppression then I may decide to just get my ovaries taken out permanently and not have to worry about it.
For now I am enjoying each day and night. It is amazing how good sleep can make you feel and act. I feel like I am no longer on edge most of the day. I am so happy and cheerful because I know these days won't last forever and while I am in them I must make the best of them and not take them for granted. I love that I am at a comfortable temperature now. I am not tossing clothes back and forth every few minutes which drove me crazy. Of course I still get cold and hot but like a normal person now. I can think again with a 100% clear mind, or at least it feels like 100% compared to how I have been thinking the last two years. I don't even know if I felt this normal before cancer treatments. It has been so long.
Again I ask myself, is this the answer to my prayers??? I would like to think that it is. I will continue to pray for clarity as these decisions are all in front of me as to what to do. It is so hard to think about going back to my LIVING HELL just to get more years here on this earth.
Wednesday, November 30, 2016
Tamoxifen Holiday and another 4 month check up
I am on a "Tamoxifen holiday". What is that you ask? Well, I have decided to take a break from Tamoxifen. I have many reasons for doing this and while I do not encourage others to do this, for me I had to. I know that Tamoxifen is a well studied drug and has many benefits but for me I am wondering if my quality of life is more important than the benefits from this drug.
How it all started is back on November 16th I had a doctor's appointment with a general practitioner who I have since designated as my primary care physician since I didn't have one. I needed help with monitoring my cholesterol and the clinic is really close to my house so it made sense. At my appointment we discussed many things and the biggest complaint I still have is the menopausal side effects that I have listed more than once on my blog and there are a lot of them!!! She talked to me about a drug called Brisdelle and how it has been approved for treating hot flashes in menopausal women, however when she typed it in it came up with a big red flag that it can reduce the effectiveness of Tamoxifen so she couldn't let me try it. I wasn't surprised! There isn't many options and I believe I have exhausted them all. I left feeling defeated once again. Before I left I had to get blood drawn for a complete panel. I got a call on Thursday, November 17th that said my cholesterol has gone down quite a bit since I have been on my statin but they want to double my statin dose to get it down even further. My cholesterol has always been high but lately it has been through the roof almost topping out at 300. The next conversation we had was quite concerning, my A1C levels are pointing to diabetes. Right now I am classified as a per-diabetic. So of course I turn to my friend Google and start learning more about Tamoxifen and of course the high cholesterol and diabetes can be side effects of this drug. I was in tears. Right then and there I decided to stop Tamoxifen, I haven't had any since November 16th. I am now 13 days without it and I feel great. My hot flashes are almost non-existent now and when I do have one it is so minor compared to what they were on Tamoxifen. Each time I got a hot flash, I had to pee (real bad) and there were many times that I would leave a little bit because of the urgency. Now that the hot-flashes are not just little tiny warm flushes, I am not peeing my pants anymore!. Last night I got a little over 8 hours of sleep without waking up once. I am in tears even typing this out because I feel so dang good, I can't explain in words how great I feel. I have gone over two years now without sleeping more than about 1-1/2 hours to maybe 3 hours at a time before waking up due to my hot flashes. The other main side effect I have noticed is my "foggy brain" that I had been contributing to chemo a.k.a "chemo brain" probably isn't chemo brain after all. It had to be Tamoxifen that was making me feel that way. It is hard to describe but I seriously felt like I was trapped in my body and couldn't get out. It is a really weird, hard feeling to feel so foggy all of the time. So to say my quality has improved in just 13 days is an understatement. I forgot what it feels like to be me. It has been a long two years since I have felt this way and I really like being me and not someone else that Tamoxifen was making me. I have also ditched the Gabapentin that I was taking to help get me a little sleep at night. I see no need for it now that my hot flashes are so minor that I am sure they are happening but I don't notice them. All the while these two drugs have made me gain almost 20 pounds since I finished chemo. I had to taper the Gabapentin because it can have nasty side effects. I have now been without it for 5 nights. I sure hope to finally lose some of this excess weight I have gained. Even if I can just drop the 20lbs that I gained I will be happy. My goal is to get my weight down a bit and hopefully get my A1C levels down and possibly be able to get my cholesterol down too without the statin drugs. I am sure that I will remain in menopause and that is okay now that my hot flashes have subsided quite a bit. I used to say what I wouldn't give for 5-10 hot flashes a day and now here I am. I am so very happy!!!!
So where do I go from here? Right now we are calling this a "drug holiday". When I saw my oncologist for a 4 month followup on Monday and told her about what I have done, she was clearly not happy. She told me that I really need this drug for 10 years and I shouted out "absolutely not". I said my quality of life is more important than my quantity of life. I told her if I had to continue to feel that lousy, I would rather be dead. I know those words are harsh but I HATE feeling the way I have been feeling. She told me it is okay to take a "drug holiday" but that she will be calling me in a month to discuss this further. She said she is going to test my hormone levels again and if they are still consistent with menopause then I can try the aromatase inhibitor drugs. I am willing to give these drugs a try, I believe there are three of them and I will try all of them before I give up completely on the blockers. I want to know that I have tried everything out there before I make my final decision. I do know that I don't want Tamoxifen ever again. Have I said how great I feel? I just wish you all could feel the way I felt before and the way I feel today and then you might understand more. I know I am not the only one out there that cannot tolerate Tamoxifen.
So the rest of my appointment went well other than her being dissatisfied with my decision to stop Tamoxifen but on the other hand she did say she understands that quality of life is important too. She told me to reschedule for another 4 months and that she would call me in a month to discuss all of the above. I didn't schedule another appointment because I have an appointment made at the Huntsman Cancer Institute in SLC. I have made the decision to get a second opinion and I may transfer my care to them. They are one of the top cancer hospitals in the United States. I know that they are constantly researching and have new trials going every day. My appointment is scheduled for December 15th and I hope to discuss the hormone therapy as well as my care going forward should I decide to not ever go back on these drugs. I know I might be sealing my fate by stopping this drug but I do believe in God and I do believe that our story was written before us coming here and no matter what I do with this choice that is before me, I will die at the exact time and day that I am supposed to and not a minute too soon and not a minute too late. When God needs me he will call me home and I have to have faith in His plan. I look at all the ways I could die right now, a heart attack from my extremely high cholesterol or from diabetes or from cancer. Right now it makes sense for me to eliminate the drug that is causing all of these other problems for me and live the best life that I can while feeling this great. Sure cancer might come back and bite me but it could even if I am on the hormone blockers.
Life is precious and if you feel good right now please, please enjoy it and embrace it for tomorrow it could be very different. I know first hand how fast life can change. I don't know why but this song sticks in my head and it is from the movie Tangled. It is seriously how I feel at this exact moment with God in control of my life:
"I See The Light"
How it all started is back on November 16th I had a doctor's appointment with a general practitioner who I have since designated as my primary care physician since I didn't have one. I needed help with monitoring my cholesterol and the clinic is really close to my house so it made sense. At my appointment we discussed many things and the biggest complaint I still have is the menopausal side effects that I have listed more than once on my blog and there are a lot of them!!! She talked to me about a drug called Brisdelle and how it has been approved for treating hot flashes in menopausal women, however when she typed it in it came up with a big red flag that it can reduce the effectiveness of Tamoxifen so she couldn't let me try it. I wasn't surprised! There isn't many options and I believe I have exhausted them all. I left feeling defeated once again. Before I left I had to get blood drawn for a complete panel. I got a call on Thursday, November 17th that said my cholesterol has gone down quite a bit since I have been on my statin but they want to double my statin dose to get it down even further. My cholesterol has always been high but lately it has been through the roof almost topping out at 300. The next conversation we had was quite concerning, my A1C levels are pointing to diabetes. Right now I am classified as a per-diabetic. So of course I turn to my friend Google and start learning more about Tamoxifen and of course the high cholesterol and diabetes can be side effects of this drug. I was in tears. Right then and there I decided to stop Tamoxifen, I haven't had any since November 16th. I am now 13 days without it and I feel great. My hot flashes are almost non-existent now and when I do have one it is so minor compared to what they were on Tamoxifen. Each time I got a hot flash, I had to pee (real bad) and there were many times that I would leave a little bit because of the urgency. Now that the hot-flashes are not just little tiny warm flushes, I am not peeing my pants anymore!. Last night I got a little over 8 hours of sleep without waking up once. I am in tears even typing this out because I feel so dang good, I can't explain in words how great I feel. I have gone over two years now without sleeping more than about 1-1/2 hours to maybe 3 hours at a time before waking up due to my hot flashes. The other main side effect I have noticed is my "foggy brain" that I had been contributing to chemo a.k.a "chemo brain" probably isn't chemo brain after all. It had to be Tamoxifen that was making me feel that way. It is hard to describe but I seriously felt like I was trapped in my body and couldn't get out. It is a really weird, hard feeling to feel so foggy all of the time. So to say my quality has improved in just 13 days is an understatement. I forgot what it feels like to be me. It has been a long two years since I have felt this way and I really like being me and not someone else that Tamoxifen was making me. I have also ditched the Gabapentin that I was taking to help get me a little sleep at night. I see no need for it now that my hot flashes are so minor that I am sure they are happening but I don't notice them. All the while these two drugs have made me gain almost 20 pounds since I finished chemo. I had to taper the Gabapentin because it can have nasty side effects. I have now been without it for 5 nights. I sure hope to finally lose some of this excess weight I have gained. Even if I can just drop the 20lbs that I gained I will be happy. My goal is to get my weight down a bit and hopefully get my A1C levels down and possibly be able to get my cholesterol down too without the statin drugs. I am sure that I will remain in menopause and that is okay now that my hot flashes have subsided quite a bit. I used to say what I wouldn't give for 5-10 hot flashes a day and now here I am. I am so very happy!!!!
So where do I go from here? Right now we are calling this a "drug holiday". When I saw my oncologist for a 4 month followup on Monday and told her about what I have done, she was clearly not happy. She told me that I really need this drug for 10 years and I shouted out "absolutely not". I said my quality of life is more important than my quantity of life. I told her if I had to continue to feel that lousy, I would rather be dead. I know those words are harsh but I HATE feeling the way I have been feeling. She told me it is okay to take a "drug holiday" but that she will be calling me in a month to discuss this further. She said she is going to test my hormone levels again and if they are still consistent with menopause then I can try the aromatase inhibitor drugs. I am willing to give these drugs a try, I believe there are three of them and I will try all of them before I give up completely on the blockers. I want to know that I have tried everything out there before I make my final decision. I do know that I don't want Tamoxifen ever again. Have I said how great I feel? I just wish you all could feel the way I felt before and the way I feel today and then you might understand more. I know I am not the only one out there that cannot tolerate Tamoxifen.
So the rest of my appointment went well other than her being dissatisfied with my decision to stop Tamoxifen but on the other hand she did say she understands that quality of life is important too. She told me to reschedule for another 4 months and that she would call me in a month to discuss all of the above. I didn't schedule another appointment because I have an appointment made at the Huntsman Cancer Institute in SLC. I have made the decision to get a second opinion and I may transfer my care to them. They are one of the top cancer hospitals in the United States. I know that they are constantly researching and have new trials going every day. My appointment is scheduled for December 15th and I hope to discuss the hormone therapy as well as my care going forward should I decide to not ever go back on these drugs. I know I might be sealing my fate by stopping this drug but I do believe in God and I do believe that our story was written before us coming here and no matter what I do with this choice that is before me, I will die at the exact time and day that I am supposed to and not a minute too soon and not a minute too late. When God needs me he will call me home and I have to have faith in His plan. I look at all the ways I could die right now, a heart attack from my extremely high cholesterol or from diabetes or from cancer. Right now it makes sense for me to eliminate the drug that is causing all of these other problems for me and live the best life that I can while feeling this great. Sure cancer might come back and bite me but it could even if I am on the hormone blockers.
Life is precious and if you feel good right now please, please enjoy it and embrace it for tomorrow it could be very different. I know first hand how fast life can change. I don't know why but this song sticks in my head and it is from the movie Tangled. It is seriously how I feel at this exact moment with God in control of my life:
"I See The Light"
All those days watching from the windows
All those years outside looking in
All that time never even knowing
Just how blind I've been
Now I'm here blinking in the starlight
Now I'm here suddenly I see
Standing here it's all so clear
I'm where I'm meant to be
And at last I see the light
And it's like the fog has lifted
And at last I see the light
And it's like the sky is new
And it's warm and real and bright
And the world has somehow shifted
All at once everything looks different
Now that I see you
All those days chasing down a daydream
All those years living in a blur
All that time never truly seeing
Things, the way they were
Now she's here shining in the starlight
Now she's here suddenly I know
If she's here it's crystal clear
I'm where I'm meant to go
And at last I see the light
And it's like the fog has lifted
And at last I see the light
And it's like the sky is new
And it's warm and real and bright
And the world has somehow shifted
All at once everything is different
Now that I see you
All those years outside looking in
All that time never even knowing
Just how blind I've been
Now I'm here blinking in the starlight
Now I'm here suddenly I see
Standing here it's all so clear
I'm where I'm meant to be
And at last I see the light
And it's like the fog has lifted
And at last I see the light
And it's like the sky is new
And it's warm and real and bright
And the world has somehow shifted
All at once everything looks different
Now that I see you
All those days chasing down a daydream
All those years living in a blur
All that time never truly seeing
Things, the way they were
Now she's here shining in the starlight
Now she's here suddenly I know
If she's here it's crystal clear
I'm where I'm meant to go
And at last I see the light
And it's like the fog has lifted
And at last I see the light
And it's like the sky is new
And it's warm and real and bright
And the world has somehow shifted
All at once everything is different
Now that I see you
I have said before that I do not practice an organized religion but that I am a very spiritual person. I was a spiritual person before my cancer journey too. However, I am so much closer to God now and have a clearer understanding of this life and our eternal life that we will be granted one day when we journey back to heaven. I am firm believer that we are here to help one another and treat one another kindly. I wish everybody could remember this saying when they are treating someone poorly: "Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a battle you know nothing about". I am praying constantly for peace, comfort and clarity for the decision that I need to make regarding Tamoxifen, ovary suppression or the other hormone blockers. I don't want any more anxiety from cancer in my life. I don't have time for it. I want each day that I feel great to be a gift.
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